A fleeting dream

In that sweet night I listened to a very aggrieved friend, a friend I've ever seen, I've never heard the voice, but who has full confidence in me and who share with me every feeling that she have in her heart ...
that is why she deserves to be called a "friend" ... a person torn between a dream and a reality ... between dream to join one that has touched his heart, and the reality that pushes her to stay where she .Close to him ,there is no future and life is very hard, some people will say that love can overcome everything, others will say that our dreams are only dreams and that reality is often bitter ... and I say that we can always get what we wants, provided that we know exactly what we want, and be aware that of one thing: any ambition requires sacrifices ... and more the sacrifice isimportant ... more so is the reward  ... the person who is afraid to climb the mountains, lives forever from the caves. I began to compare the two characters in this story, the beloved who has realized that the union can not be done because my friend could not bear to live long in the region for reasons understandable and my friend who can not forget and at the same time is aware that she can't withstand the conditions of the region of his beloved ... and she is trying to find a quick fix ... which probably does not exist ... or does not exist at all. Two characters, one of them use his reason before his feelings, and the other refuses to recognize the reality and still holds these feelings that are trapped by material necessity  ... who is wrong and who is right? it's probably not the question to ask but .... there is a lesson to take from all of this, our feelings are what gives us the certainty that we live and we are human, but loosing the control of them can lead us to our loss, feelings do not know the logic, and this world works only by a logic which each one of us should learn and understand. Any feeling should be guided by reason, hat or love, revenge or forgiveness ... if reason does not pass before your feelings to guide them, it is likely that your heart and your mind will be deeply hurt by a dream who, when he wants to marry reality will give birth to a disappointment and a hell. No matter who you are, no matter where you are, what you believe in, know that I love you, and it's by love, that i recommend you to let your reason guide your feelings, in order that your mind remains away from all the dream that can bury you in the darkness of deception.
Nomad